This post was originally posted in 2012 on joeyaberle.com. I fell in love with Peter’s series like this and he suggested that I start one myself. So, with that, I present to you the first “Letters To My Future Wife.”
I really don’t know how to start this letter and I don’t know where I am going to go with it. One thing I do know is that I wasn’t going to start it with “babe, honey or sweetie.” Maybe it’s just me, but sometimes I don’t really like pet names.
Towards the end of my last relationship I was emotionally, physically and mentally drained. I wish I could say it was because of being a full time student while working full time and handling a full time relationship, but it wasn’t. The relationship just drained me. It’s been a solid year and a half since that last ‘serious’ relationship and I am finally starting to think that I am ready to start looking again.
I am a flirt and I used to be the type of guy that would always want a girl on my arm. The moment a girl started flirting back with me I would start to fall. That is not always the best way to start something. I will always continue to flirt with girls, but I have realized over time that I don’t always need a girl.
As I get older I sometimes wonder if there is anyone out there. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had some great relationships in the past, but nothing that would be wife material. The other thing is that I don’t want to have to work for it. I don’t want to sign-up for multiple dating websites or anything like that. Sure, maybe I’ll go out on a few dates here and there, but I believe that if you are out there for me, you will come and find me at the right moment.
The only thing I ask is that you just accept me for all my little quirks that I may have and I will do the same for you. Except for that one little thing, yeah, you know the one I am talking about.
This is our story and I am loving it already.
It was in March of 2013 that I wrote my last blog post on this site. Since then, I have been writing posts here and there on Tumblr. But now I am back and very excited about it!
I don’t really know where I am going to go with the site, but I know I will be posting a lot more on here then my Tumblr.
I hope you are excited as well and come back!